tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post2371131311862191183..comments2024-01-08T18:25:09.089-08:00Comments on Hot Dads: Fakin' it? Really?Captain Dumbasshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02214826608461609241noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-37525295412237480192009-11-16T21:08:52.657-08:002009-11-16T21:08:52.657-08:00Look if a woman has faked it with me rather than t...Look if a woman has faked it with me rather than telling me what I can do better, her loss. If it's a matter of "just finish up and get off of me" I'm okay with that cause if she's not into it, it's very hard for me to finish. <br /><br />Now I would be foolish to think that a woman hasn't faked it with me at least once, but I'm confident that in my best DGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01302995272029761401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-31707875975875626342009-11-15T04:49:02.390-08:002009-11-15T04:49:02.390-08:00I admit that I cum pretty easy, so faking has not ...I admit that I cum pretty easy, so faking has not been in my vocabulary. Nothing has prevented me from the "O" except time (premature). If I cum that easy and you can't do it without cumming first, we have a problem.<br /><br />Aren't they old enough to know better and to learn to control it. It's not rocket science but takes a little effort.chocdrophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01233007341124315348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-52132552743284047632009-11-14T20:02:09.306-08:002009-11-14T20:02:09.306-08:00What if you fake that you didn't cum?! I can ...What if you fake that you didn't cum?! I can orgasm fairly easily in a variety of ways (practice helps) and there are some days that once my trigger get tripped look out! But it can be just as embarrassing/uncomfortable to answer to, "Did you just cum...AGAIN?!" "Damn girl...Slow down."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-18141672789127581322009-11-14T15:52:12.569-08:002009-11-14T15:52:12.569-08:00I have never faked one!I have never faked one!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-40893297135858635542009-11-14T07:54:51.326-08:002009-11-14T07:54:51.326-08:00I'm all about taking care of her first. And I ...I'm all about taking care of her first. And I will take the time and effort that is needed to make sure that happens. faking just isn't ever really an issue. I rarely find myself in position where I'm not in control of how I'm feeling. Of course there was that one time, where she got a kick out of if that I was loosing control.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12922001770254913738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-10212772707246005502009-11-13T20:34:17.571-08:002009-11-13T20:34:17.571-08:00If some woman is faking orgasm, it may not be beca...If some woman is faking orgasm, it may not be because the guy sucks at sex. It might be because she's not raising her sexual energy properly. That can happen for a variety of reasons.<br /><br />I think it's silly for a woman to put her orgasm on the man's ego. It might be her problem she's not getting off. It might have nothing to do with this particular guy.dadshousehttp://dadshouseblog.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-16426062392262933712009-11-13T09:59:35.168-08:002009-11-13T09:59:35.168-08:00Living with five guys in college, I have had this ...Living with five guys in college, I have had this conversation all too many times. Women fake orgasms. Period. Not all of the time, not in every relationship, but it happens.<br /><br />When I was a young idealist, I used to say I would never, ever do it. I didn't understand why one would fake it. If you faked it, your partner would never really learn how to get you there and you'd KristinFiluthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08393804049131406666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-39190598345193362682009-11-13T09:13:46.934-08:002009-11-13T09:13:46.934-08:00I'm with Momma Sunshine.
I think it's ok i...I'm with Momma Sunshine.<br />I think it's ok if I don't get one. I'm perfectly happy letting him have his turn, and maybe pouncing on him later when I feel worked up.<br />There are plenty of things to make me not have the ability to have an orgasm, but those are really personal reasons, and I doubt if anyone shares the same sentiments.<br />In my marriage I prefer to tell him.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18270666719289599529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-14767619471638569322009-11-13T09:01:52.445-08:002009-11-13T09:01:52.445-08:00Y'know what just occurred to me, too? Guys (SO...Y'know what just occurred to me, too? Guys (SOME guys, not all) need to learn how to respect the, "It's just not gonna happen tonight, honey" explanation. I've been with guys who were insistent, "oh no, you're GOING to have an orgasm before I'm done with you". Yeah...that kind of attitude led to faking it on my part. 'Cuz he just wasn't going to getMomma Sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16771665079660617047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-56900225863882363722009-11-13T08:55:29.880-08:002009-11-13T08:55:29.880-08:00I can't say that I've never done this. But...I can't say that I've never done this. But, fortunately, I haven't needed or wanted to in many years. (Yay, me.)<br /><br />But, yeah, I admit that I've faked it in the past. Why? Sometimes just to get it over with and/or spare the guy's feelings. There, I said it. It happens. It's not necessarily a reflection on the guy. (Though, yeah, sometimes it is.) <br /><br />Like OneZenMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00764231117789511983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-19849935675741395832009-11-13T08:19:15.345-08:002009-11-13T08:19:15.345-08:00You raise some good points, T.
I giggled to myse...You raise some good points, T. <br /><br />I giggled to myself at "Dude. If you have to ask then 'no'."<br /><br />Umm...yeah. Been there, done that, NEVER going back. Thank GOD for a sexually compatible partner, is all I'm gonna say.Momma Sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16771665079660617047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-15738616454356049612009-11-13T08:16:43.869-08:002009-11-13T08:16:43.869-08:00Wooo... the pressure to cum.
I had a guy once ask...Wooo... the pressure to cum.<br /><br />I had a guy once ask me, "Did you cum yet?"<br /><br />I was all, "Dude. If you have to ask then 'no'."<br /><br />I have known some women who, all the way up into their 30's, have never had an orgasm. Some women may not even know what's pleasurable to them because they've never masturbated. Shame was associated with https://www.blogger.com/profile/10112766306021310705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-77488868814707605822009-11-13T07:54:27.512-08:002009-11-13T07:54:27.512-08:00This brings me back to last night actually! The e...This brings me back to last night actually! The experience was fantastic and I had two little organsims and my man was wanting me to have "one." I was just not getting there and at some point the pressure can become a distraction too. <br />Of course the thoughts came into my mind if I should fake it to make him feel better or not. I opted for not and just told him that it might notD.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06707115263658541450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-46315475508644327372009-11-13T07:50:26.919-08:002009-11-13T07:50:26.919-08:00If someone feels its okay to fake orgasm there is ...If someone feels its okay to fake orgasm there is probably other deceptions in the relationship. It should be okay to say I just cant get there. With that thought, sometimes it’s better to give than to receive.<br /><br />Oxymoron – bad orgasmNonflammablehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06357613550175307025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-89713448548578669262009-11-13T07:42:52.555-08:002009-11-13T07:42:52.555-08:00What are you talking about? I fake it all the tim...What are you talking about? I fake it all the time.<br /><br />But seriously, I love it when we cum together. There are a lot of things that come into play though...which is why we do have a drawer full of toys to lean on ...in times of need.TentCamperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00911767583033104298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-19902836569509994232009-11-13T06:55:08.200-08:002009-11-13T06:55:08.200-08:00NO woman wants to hurt a mans ego. And sometimes i...NO woman wants to hurt a mans ego. And sometimes if we're distracted or having a bad day or whatever the case may be...something might be preventing us from reaching the big O. And I for one, don't ever want my man to think it's his fault. Lucky for me, in my current relationship I haven't had to fake it. But I have faked it A LOT in the past. :)MommyLovesStilettoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09743876173745605269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-64783417304075858332009-11-13T05:50:24.595-08:002009-11-13T05:50:24.595-08:00I think that in our society there's such a HUG...I think that in our society there's such a HUGE deal placed on achieving orgasm. I mean, that's the whole POINT, isn't it? <br /><br />I can assure you that I, for one, have had some wonderful (and satisfying!) sexual sessions that didn't include orgasm. Sex serves a variety of roles - and "getting off" isn't the only one. Sometimes it's a matter of physical Momma Sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16771665079660617047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-6005997521618187102009-11-13T05:49:28.194-08:002009-11-13T05:49:28.194-08:00I would be terribly disappointed if a lover was fa...I would be terribly disappointed if a lover was faking orgasm. it's inauthentic and an emotional betrayal, maybe I am being melodramatic.<br /><br />There are random times when I just can't. No matter what -- and I am honest about it. I think the faking is way worse than the slight ego blow of "I just can't!"Athenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11438090775698376007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4292419876225917604.post-52430113973118228052009-11-13T05:49:11.074-08:002009-11-13T05:49:11.074-08:00She might not want to hurt the guy's feelings....She might not want to hurt the guy's feelings. However, in the long run, women should be honest with their lovers and tell them what they want.The Peach Tarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587235197620014751noreply@blogger.com